All posts tagged: unconventional relationships

‘One has to accept the situation’: When Hema Malini opened up about living away from Dharmendra; how unconventional marriages builds emotional resilience | Feelings News

‘One has to accept the situation’: When Hema Malini opened up about living away from Dharmendra; how unconventional marriages builds emotional resilience | Feelings News

Hema Malini and Dharmendra have completed 45 years since their wedding ceremony this year. Their decades-long relationship has stood out not just for its longevity but also for its unconventional dynamic.  Dharmendra, who was already married to Prakash Kaur and had four children with her, continued to live with his first family even after marrying Hema. Despite the physical distance, Hema has often spoken about being content with her life and the way things unfolded.  In an earlier interview with Lehren, Hema spoke about their unusual living arrangement and her emotional acceptance of it. “I am not feeling bad about it, or sulking about it. I am happy with myself. I have my two children, and I have brought them up very well. Of course, he (Dharmendra) was there, always. Everywhere.” While acknowledging that “no one likes staying away from their spouse,” she added that “sometimes in life, circumstances are such that one has to accept the situation.” She also reflected that although every woman desires a complete family, “sometimes the situation is such that …

Love in separate spaces: Why Indian couples are embracing the ‘living apart together’ trend | Feelings News

Love in separate spaces: Why Indian couples are embracing the ‘living apart together’ trend | Feelings News

These days, an increasing number of couples are saying, “I love you, but I also love my own space.” In an era where personal space and independence are increasingly valued, the concept of ‘Living Apart Together’ (LAT) is gaining traction as a refreshing alternative to traditional cohabitation. Think of it like having the best of both worlds: the closeness of a real partnership but also a sanctuary where you can recharge and keep your routines. In essence, LAT involves committed or married couples maintaining separate homes while remaining romantically and emotionally connected. While LAT is already well-established in the West to balance personal and shared lives, it presents an intriguing contrast in India, where cultural norms traditionally emphasise togetherness and cohabitation as essential to marriage. Despite this, some Indian couples are embracing the LAT lifestyle, challenging societal expectations and redefining what it means to be in a committed relationship. To understand this growing trend, we spoke to real-life LAT couples in India who shared their experiences, the challenges they navigate, and the impact of living …